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I am now on Bebo

2010-09-14T20:40:00.000-04:00

I am now on Bebo

Now on Hi5

2010-09-14T20:39:00.000-04:00

I am now on hi5

Facebook

2009-12-17T12:24:00.002-05:00

I am addicted to some of the apps like Farm Town, Farmville,Fishville, Petville, Rollercoaster Kingdom, Yoville. Also I like the gift apps dealing with BDSM.

2009-11-04T21:19:00.001-05:00

what type of gaurdian are you

Gaurdian of the Shadows
you are the gaurdian of shadows. you hunt down inmortal souls and you bring there souls to the shadow relms with they will be your slave FOREVER.

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Which Evil Criminal are You?

2009-10-20T00:34:00.000-04:00

Which Evil Criminal are You?
A Rum and Monkey crime.

Tread Lightly with this Scorpio

2009-09-22T02:23:00.001-04:00

Tread Lightly with this Scorpio

Positive Aspects Of Scorpio In Love:
Loyal - Supportive - Protective - Generous with Strength and Knowledge - Humble - Quiet - Unshakable - Passionate - Encompassing

Negative Aspects Of Scorpio In Love:
Possessive - Jealous - Obsessive - Quick to Anger - Suspicious - Mistrusting - Secretive - Unreliable

Romantic Style:
Powerful - Passionate - Emotionally Forceful
Scorpio natives are often regarded as somewhat magnetic and the libido here is said to be legendary. However, these individuals can be exceedingly jealous and resentful, requiring a partner who can respond at the deepest of levels. In short, those governed by Scorpio have no time or patience for superficial unions. This is a sign which possesses much stamina, but one that can be both brutal and emotional. This subject understands the innermost needs of a partner and is an expert in the art of love and romance. Still, there will always be the tendency toward jealousy and the seeking of revenge...to say nothing of the secretive character associated with this Sign. These natives are prone to act mysterious and profound, but it will be necessary for any mate not to get upset over this...if left to themselves, those ruled by Scorpio will eventually come down to earth.

Which rank in the wolf pack do you belong to?

2009-09-22T02:14:00.001-04:00

Which rank in the wolf pack do you belong to?

AlphaYou are the born leader, and no one ever gets in your way. If they do, they're in for it! You make sure everyone is in line, and reassure your dominance to the middle ranks of the pack. When challenged for the Alpha position, you fight with every ounce of strength in your body and soul. You are constantly ruling over others, and they follow you without question.

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Scorpios

2009-06-15T01:30:00.000-04:00

Vampire Rave

2009-05-26T01:52:00.002-04:00

Vampire Rave

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Just Joined Vampirefreaks.com

2009-04-07T22:45:00.003-04:00

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New T-Shirt Designs

2009-01-01T23:24:00.002-05:00

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Wanna be my Slave? by LdyDonna
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Who's Your Kitty? by LdyDonna
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2008-12-29T04:15:00.001-05:00

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2008-11-26T07:38:00.001-05:00

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I'm not mean, by LdyDonna
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2008-11-22T01:41:00.002-05:00

Bad Ass Rocker Bitch by LdyDonna
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I've Turned Everyone Bad by LdyDonna
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Gothic Beauty by LdyDonna
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2008-11-21T07:25:00.001-05:00

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Party

2008-11-21T01:30:00.001-05:00

My Movies

2008-11-21T01:23:00.000-05:00

My VisualDNA

2008-11-21T01:10:00.000-05:00

My First Fetish Ball Libertine Ball 2006

2008-11-20T21:03:00.002-05:00

On July 14, 2006 - July 16,2006, I went to the Libertine Ball 2006. I didn't play very much. I was rude and pulled my friend, by his collar, to the floor. I also to told him to lick my boots and another Domme's boots. I felt it was nothing,but a fashion show. I had old men, trying to take me home. Some rude men pawing at me. I did learn more about knife play.

How Do Others Perceive You?

2008-11-20T20:09:00.004-05:00

You scored a total of 44

The Lively Center of Attention

Others see you as fresh, lively, charming, amusing, practical, and always interesting; someone who's constantly in the center of attention, but sufficiently well-balanced not to let it go to their head. They also see you as kind, considerate, and understanding; someone who'll always cheer them up and help them out.

New T-Shirt Designs

2008-11-18T20:13:00.001-05:00

punishment means nothing to me by LdyDonna
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2008-11-14T05:58:00.001-05:00

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I'm Bad So what? by LdyDonna
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2008-11-14T04:43:00.001-05:00

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2008-11-14T04:15:00.001-05:00

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DSF The Darkside Fetish Ball @ Paddles

2008-11-02T16:12:00.003-05:00

On Saturday Nov 01, 2008, I went to the DomSubFriends The Darkside Fetish Ball at Paddles. It was my first time at Paddles. I enjoyed the event. The people were friendly and played. I finally was able to experience Needle Play. I liked it. I enjoyed one of my most intense verbal scenes, which I loved. Definitely a night to remember.

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2008-10-31T14:36:00.001-04:00

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2008-10-29T09:25:00.001-04:00

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2008-10-29T09:19:00.001-04:00

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Finally Got on AIM

2008-10-29T04:30:00.001-04:00

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2008-10-28T21:07:00.001-04:00

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I created a new Myspace Group

2008-10-09T13:22:00.001-04:00

I created the Myspace group pa femdomme for Dommes and subs in Pennsylvania

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BINDING ARBITRATION S&M GALS DIG IN THEIR HEELS WITH UNION BID

2008-10-07T08:51:00.001-04:00

It's about time.

BINDING ARBITRATION S&M GALS DIG IN THEIR HEELS WITH UNION BID by By REBECCA ROSENBERG October 6, 2008 in New York Post.
"New York's dominatrixes have been getting spanked by the economy recently - and now, they're lashing back.

Already reeling from a series of local prostitution raids, dommes have also had to grapple with disobedient clients who can't afford to pay for their punishments.

To address the double-whammy hitting their industry, many of them want to form a political-action committee and union to represent their interests.

"It's never been worse. Business is down 70 percent," said Mistress Johanna, owner of Chelsea's Le Salon DeSade. "We've had all these busts, and now the economy is out of control. The uncertainty is torturing us."

On Thursday, 10 dominatrixes at DeSade were dressed to the hilt - in red corsets, latex minis and thigh-high boots - with no one to flog.

On what used to be one of the house's busiest nights, only two customers came in, and the phone barely rang. The few clients who still trickle in have scaled back their sessions.

Most houses on Dungeon Alley, the cluster of S&M clubs in Midtown, complain of similar woes.

Mistresses say the economic downturn and recent spat of busts - namely of Rapture NYC, Rebecca's Hidden Chamber and Avalon - has created an atmosphere of fear and panic.

More than a dozen dominatrixes and dungeon owners have retained John Campbell, partner of the Tilem and Campbell law firm.

"This isn't like the escort industry, where there's a lot of illegality and everyone knows it," said Campbell, who also represents escort agencies. "In the BDSM [bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism] industry, virtually everyone was operating under the belief that what they were doing was legal."

The law is unclear, and this poses a major challenge to dominatrixes who want to run legal businesses but can't figure out what is and isn't allowed, said Campbell.

So now, they've taken matters into their own hands. About two weeks ago, the industry had an emergency meeting. The women discussed forming an informal union to represent their interests.

Johanna's business partner, who requested anonymity, is laying the groundwork.

He's drafting paperwork to start DomPAC, which will lobby lawmakers to rewrite prostitution laws to protect BDSM practices.

Dommes hope this will pave the way for them to unionize, so that one day, they can have 401(k)s, health insurance and unemployment benefits.

"Ultimately, this is about America . . . This is about having the right to express yourself in the lifestyle of your choice," Mistress Johanna's business partner said."

\\\ Master's Gift -- Scorpio Women ///

2008-10-06T20:35:00.001-04:00

\\\ Master's Gift -- Sexual Horoscopes ///: "Scorpio women: Inquisitive, searching and experimental. Knows that eroticism consists of more than the physical act of lovemaking. While looking like a perfectly lady in public, you dress and behave like a whore in the bedroom. Control of the orgasm is very important and will try anything to help your man maintain his potency. You never take no for an answer and when interested in someone, you will pursue Him with determination and guile.
Best sex mates: Gemini, Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces.
Props you love: scented Body oils, flavored lubricating gels and vibrators."

Slave Register Ownership Icons

2008-10-01T23:40:00.001-04:00

You Can Call Me on Niteflirt

2008-10-01T02:14:00.001-04:00

I moved up to Baroness on Femdomme Society and Interview publish

2008-09-26T17:35:00.002-04:00

I have moved up to the rank of Baroness. Check it out

If you want to see my interview on Femdomme Soceity, check out @}- Lady Donna -{@

My Femdom Interests

2008-09-26T01:54:00.001-04:00

My areas of FemDom interest include Arse ( Ass Play),Adversary Play,Biting,Bondage, Boot/Foot Worship, Cock and Ball Torture,Crushing,Exhibitionism,Flogging, Hair Pulling, Humiliation, Knife Play,Medical play,Nipple Torture (NT), Orgasm Denial,Sensation Play (vampire glove, Wartenberg Wheel),Scratching,Spanking, Tease and Denial, Tickling,Trampling,Watersports

I am curious about Bloodsports,Crushing,Needles,Ponyboy Training,Puppy Training,Slave Training,Smothering,Strap-ons

Not ISO in the scene

2008-09-26T01:52:00.001-04:00

Not In Search Of:Do not talk to me if you are a racist or an elitist. I dislike stepford subs/boys or "Do me" subs,Drama Queens, and closed mind individuals.I am not interested in cyber/online domination, or being on a cam; only RT.

As for play my Hard Limits are Asphyxiation, Coprohilla (Scat), Diapers, and Spitting. Of course, the obvious limits of no children or animals.

ISO in the scene

2008-09-26T01:49:00.001-04:00

I am looking for friends, mentors, casual play partners, and possibly more.

My preference is someone intelligent ,doesn't take life too seriously, Open minded, unconventional and Honest, and I enjoy their company. I love hanging out with BDSMers, Bikers, Goths, and RPG gamers.

My Rules

2008-09-26T01:43:00.001-04:00

My Rules

I always make the rules.

It is my prerogative to change the rules at any time without notice to the sub.

The sub is to remain silent at all times unless spoken to.

When the sub feels a need for my attention, the sub comes into my
consciousness, and addressing me as Lady Donna.

The sub will begin and end every sentence with "Lady"

If asking a "yes" or "no" question says "Lady, do You wish me to..., Lady"
The sub responds "Lady, Yes Lady, Thank You Lady!",after all my responses
or commands.

"Lady, beg Your pardon Lady" is the only way a sub expresses her/his accidental activities.

The sub may not touch me without my permission.

The sub must execute, cheerfully and to the best of his/her ability all tasks assigned to him/her by me.

I am never wrong.

If I am wrong, it is because of a flagrant misunderstanding which is a direct result of something the sub did or said that was wrong.

If rule above applies, the sub must apologize immediately for causing the misunderstanding.

I reserves the right to punish the sub for any reason,at any time or just because I feels like it.

If the sub is unable to figure out the rules, it is due to some failing or misunderstanding on his/her part,not mine.

What kind of Domme are you?

2008-09-23T20:48:00.001-04:00

You Scored as Psychologist

No doubt than You're an intelligent Domme. You use Your brain to make Your slave submit to You. You like to play with his head and to manipulate him to Your own advantage. You like to put Your slave into situations where he'll feel lost and uncomfortable. And You like him to think about You always when he's not at home.

Fussy and demanding

100%

The Trainer

100%

Psychologist

100%

Kinky and sex driven

100%

Sadistic but indulgent

95%

Teasing and "bitchy"

95%

Possessive and controlling

95%

Lifestyler

90%

The Player

88%

Humiliatrix

88%

Extremely sadistic, twisted and pitiless

80%

Female supremacist

80%

Cold and distant

79%

Loving, caring and with submissive tendencies

65%

Club FEM Philly Party 09/13/08

2008-09-16T05:45:00.005-04:00

On September 13, 2008, I went to Club FEM Philly party, at Hellfire NJ. The people were very friendly and do play. I enjoyed playing in a scene with another Domme

My Zazzle Store

2008-09-10T03:58:00.001-04:00

I just started designing products that can be purchased at

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Fubar

2008-08-25T04:49:00.001-04:00

Femdomme Society

2008-08-25T04:48:00.002-04:00

dungeonsubspage Fetish Party

2008-07-06T21:09:00.003-04:00

On Saturday June 28,2008, I went to play part atsome one'shouse. It was awesome. There was alot of equipment to use and most people were players. We definately try to play with these people again. My first experience receiving a strapon, it was the best sex I had in a long time. My first time having sex with a woman.

Moved Blog

2008-06-06T03:54:00.001-04:00

I have moved all my old posts from my old blog

Stepford/Robot Boys

2008-06-06T03:51:00.003-04:00

I enjoy being a Domme. I have one pet peeve, the Stepford Boys. You know the type, little boys that run around like robots. If I wanted a robot to deal with I would buy one. Don't get me wrong; I like a guy that takes orders. I don't like the guys that must agree with everything and don't think for themselves

Also the guys that play the game, "I am only hear to please you" bothers me. We all know that is Bull Shit. Just cut the chase, and be honest about what you like to do. If I enjoy it as well, I might consider participating. I know darn well that most of you aren't into extreme CBT, among other things. Neither am I, but I am honest enough to admit that

Look into my Eyes

2008-06-06T03:50:00.001-04:00

One of my biggest turns is making a submissive look into my eyes. There is something about pulling a submissive's hair and making him/her looks into my eyes. This little act can be quite intense. The submissive's eyes convey some many messages of helplessly and sometimes love. It makes me feel for a moment that I have total control. The submissive and I are in our own little world of power exchangeI can remember the first time, as though it was yesterday. He was sitting in a chair. I was towering above him. I remember pulling his head back. His eyes were looking up to me from below; conveying his willingness to submit to me. For that moment, I was in total control. It was the most erotic and intense plays, I had ever had.

Nothing to Prove

2008-06-06T03:49:00.004-04:00

Sunday, April 09, 2006

My dear friend and I had very interesting discussion today. He wanted me to prove that I am into BDSM and that I am a Domme for myself.

I have reached one conclusion. I have nothing to prove. I do not need to prove that I am Domme to anyone. I am who I am and that is all that matters. I know my nature and some of things I like. I am a Domme, because I enjoying being that.

My dear friend introduced me to what BDSM is and gave it a name for some of things I had experienced in the past. I am grateful for that. However, I am into being a Domme, because I enjoy the control, and not because someone else is into BDSM. I do things, because I enjoy them, and not because some else does. We have all tried different things, because some suggested them, but only continue do or using that thing, because we enjoy it.

BDSM and Scorpios

2008-06-06T03:49:00.003-04:00

I found this article very interesting

BDSM Scorpio
Self-centered, always looking for mastery of themselves and their burning desires. Prone to self-destruction, unstoppable by difficulties, always looking for new struggles and challenges, Scorpios may be good friends or terrible foes.

always to EXTREME

Personality of people born under Scorpio's stars is basically self-centered. They devote all their efforts in search of the more complete and absolute mastery of themselves. Scorpios cannot stand failures. When Scorpios fails to control their burning desires, they may waste their life on drugs or alcohol addiction, destructing themselves with unstoppable determination. Scorpios hates superficiality, giving or receiving flattery in all its forms, and they love truth and hidden sides of things. If they are prone to self-destruction, external difficulties cannot stop them. On the contrary, Scorpios sometimes need resistance to go on. Too easy things are not for them. Scorpios are absolutely determinates: each time they find an obstacle, they work on it until they eliminate it. They venerate their own desires and they continually work to dominate them. In spite of every legal, social, moral or ethic limitation they forge their will under the fire of a stern self discipline and they rarely indulge on themselves. Due to this harsh self-treatment, they often turn out to celebrate themselves as gods and goddesses, using the power they developed in the relation with others.

Scorpios may be precious allied, and they use their energy to support the evolution of people around them, but they also can turn out to be very hard to handle. They can be immensely altruists, but in a moment they may turn utterly selfish with the same determination. They may be kind and respectful with someone as they can be devilish and cruel with someone else. Scorpios are actually very sensitive people, and they especially feels emotionally vulnerable by friends and relatives. That is why they carefully hide their vulnerability to others. Scorpios are not good subjects to trick. Most times they seem to be insensitive to attacks and offences, or even to physical injuries, and they even may react with indifference or unpredictable kindness to people treating them very badly. But all Scorpios are ultimately vindictive. Something about Scorpios are the eyes. They always shows tehir deep movements. For instance, when a Scorpio is happy, its eyes sparkle. When he is angry, they seem to shoot fire around, and when a Scorpio feels hurt, its eyes turn dark and dead like the ones of a shark. Fear such look: a hurt Scorpio will never be able to forget nor forgive the offence - he will patiently await the time to strike back at full force. He may take its revenge even after decades.

Scorpios are very industrious persons, in constant need to be busy. Their determination drive them to go on with their work skipping any other need, even sleeping or eating. This aspect makes them exceptional sources in case of emergencies. The problem is that they always work this way, forcing colleagues to keep their exhausting rhythm. They have a talent about regeneration and intuition. Thus they are often drawn to medical professions. There they seem to show a supernatural strength and capacity to overcome suffering, disease and death. The same power shows in the investigation-related jobs. Scorpios are excellent detectives, and they show unexplainable skills in understanding the criminals they hunt. Most Scorpios shows some extent of psychic powers and all of them are deeply attracted into mystery, unseen, occultism and generally every paranormal activity and phenomenon. Occasionally the psychic powers of Scorpios bring them disturbing visions and rarely even drive them to madness.

Most Scorpios hide inside their souls an unbelievable amount of passions, which they always try to dominate and control. Their love may be addictive, but also suffocating. Scorpios are very giving and demanding partners. Jealousy, possessiveness, anger and hate may bursts unexpected and devouring. When a Scorpio decide to hurt someone, he is always able to find the more evil and effective way to do it. They sense others weaknesses and vulnerabilities and may terribly determined in hitting there. Scorpios' sense of humor is often dark and sometimes incomprehensible.

Scorpios shows little or no trust in medicine. They simply deny themselves the right to be ill, until they definitely crashes. When their consistent resistance surrenders to a disease, they stop all activities and rely on enormous amount of medicaments. Bladder and genitals are the more vulnerable body areas of Scorpions. Abscesses, carbuncles, piles, ruptures and ulcers are also very common. The powerful energies that they hide inside must be released or they finally hurt them form the inside. Sports and physical activities are a must for Scorpios.

SCORPIO and BDSM

If a zodiacal sign may represent BDSM then its surely the Scorpio. The attitude for domination /submission relationship is a fundamental part of its personality, which resounds for cruelty and power struggles. Scorpios are always fascinated with the power and its use, and they always push situations to the extreme. Such attitude makes Scorpios passionate but also risky partners: into BDSM they always push to the limits in both roles, and they are not satisfied until they reach and cross them. The fascination with black lingerie of Scorpios revels in spades its nature into BDSM and fetish, they can explore and express all their passion for dark and fetish clothing. Sometimes Scorpios may be even fanatic in their BDSM attitudes, treating the BDSM relation and apparel in a far too strict and involving way. Scorpios see everything as a challenge, and so will see the role-play situation: a challenge to be the "perfect" Dominant or the challenge to be the "perfect" submissive. As Dominants, Scorpios may be utterly cruel or very sweet, but they will always be very demanding and deep in their approach. They will always perceive the expectation and desires of their submissive and play on them. Scorpios are also particularly interested in Mindfucking and mind play. As submissive, Scorpios will always give themselves in full force, forcing the Dom to react or be outclassed. All submissive Scorpios top from the bottom to various extent. They may directly try to drive the situation to their desires or more subtly push the Dom to desire what they want. Given that, the dream of submissive Scorpios is to find a Dom able to understand them and fuck their always lucid and powerful mind - which rarely happens. Scorpio rules anus and genital areas - tease and denial, forced chastity and genital tortures will be surely among its favorites practices.

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SCORPIO SCHEDE

Dates: From October 24 to November 22
Planets: Ruled by Mars and Pluto
Star Chart: Rules the 8th house (Sex, death, regeneration).
Elements: Water sign
Body: Rules the sexual organs of the human body.
Sentence: I DESIRE
Colors: Deep red, Blood Red, Black
Stones: Opal, Blood red carnelian, Garnet
BDSM Gift: Leather tight clothings, severely in black.

First time at S&M Club, Darkside

2008-06-06T03:48:00.002-04:00

On Saturday May 6, 2006, I went to my first S&M club called the Darkside. I had a wonderful time and can't wait to go again. I was actually topped. I was flogged and loved it. I will think about switching more often.

First Fetish Party

2008-06-06T03:47:00.005-04:00

On 6/17/06, I went to DSF/Bacchus club Fetish party and Slave auction and had I wonderful time.

I experienced many new things as bottom, such as vampire gloves, crop, Wartenberg Wheel, OTK spanking, paddling, hard spanking and playing with a couple.

As I top, It was my first time to flog someone, use vampire gloves and wartenberg wheel, OTK spank, paddle, and hard spank people.

I also met some wonderful people.

Out of this experience, I learned OTK, hard spanking, and paddles are not to be used on me. I am no pain slut, when I bottom.

Don't Call Me Ma'am, Call me Lady

2008-06-06T03:47:00.003-04:00

I hate it with a passion to be called Ma'am. I understand it's a sign of respect. However, I feel like an old lady every time. I am called that. I prefer Lady. I like the medieval connotations of the queen and her knight.

Don't Assume I will

2008-06-06T03:46:00.001-04:00

While DSF/Bacchus club Fetish party and Slave auction, I had rude experience. One guy tried to have me give him a hand job, by putting my hand on his dick. I feel that is very rude. I agreed to OTK spank, but I was never asked about the hand job. After I told him no, He attempted to do that twice more. I then told him I was done spanking him.

I feel it took a lot of nerve to get me to give him a hand job without asking me first. Just because I am young for the scene, don't assume I will do what you want and will not say no.

First Major Event - TES Fest 06

2008-06-06T03:45:00.001-04:00

I had a wonderful time meeting cool people from all over the place.

Some of the workshops I took were: Adversarial Play, Catalytic Scenes and Conscious Perversion, The Qualities of an Excellent Master, Fee- not only for the foot fetishist, Raising the Bar: Asking for more and getting it!, Knife Play, and The Fine Art of Lap Dancing.

Some of the events I went to were: Abusement Park, NYC Style Couples Meet and Greet, The Latex Pool Party, and Slave Auction.

During the Couples Meet and Greet, I met a cool FemDom couple that I could learn from and play with.

I found out that I really enjoy bondage and knife play. I entered my first Slave Auction, as switch, and was bought by a guy into bondage. I loved it. I asked a wonderful Domme join me in playing with the guy that won me. It was a very long and intense scene, which lasted over 3 hours. It was wonderful. I learned a lot from her. I realized I love knife play coupled with bondage.

Also realized that I was into Adversarial Play, before I knew that was what it is called.

Among other things, I learned that various scenes, such as foot worship, can be both a bottom and top act depending on the mind set of the people playing. Also, The Top is the top always, regardless of giving or receiving services. It all depends on the mind set of the top. For example, If a top likes to be tied up and tickled, He/she is still top, because he/she asked for those things and reinforced to the bottom that despite this act he/she is still top.