Nothing to Prove

Sunday, April 09, 2006

My dear friend and I had very interesting discussion today. He wanted me to prove that I am into BDSM and that I am a Domme for myself.

I have reached one conclusion. I have nothing to prove. I do not need to prove that I am Domme to anyone. I am who I am and that is all that matters. I know my nature and some of things I like. I am a Domme, because I enjoying being that.

My dear friend introduced me to what BDSM is and gave it a name for some of things I had experienced in the past. I am grateful for that. However, I am into being a Domme, because I enjoy the control, and not because someone else is into BDSM. I do things, because I enjoy them, and not because some else does. We have all tried different things, because some suggested them, but only continue do or using that thing, because we enjoy it.